Think of someone in your network right now. You already know what condition that relationship is in.
You can feel it.
You just can't act on a feeling.
This guide gives you the vocabulary. Six conditions — not stages, not scores — readings. Warming. Active. Resting. Cooling. Stalled. The moment you see them, you'll start placing people.
Then it gives you the move. Give. Ask. Wait. Let go. Four orientations, one question: whose move is it right now.